Rules and Code of Conduct

1. Consent Is Paramount

Explicit Consent: All activities must be consensual. No one should participate in any scene without receiving explicit verbal or written consent from all parties involved.

Enthusiastic Consent: Consent must be enthusiastic, informed, and can be withdrawn at any time, regardless of prior agreements or dynamics.

No Coercion: Pressure, manipulation, or any form of coercion to engage in any activity is strictly forbidden.

Respect "Safe Words": Commonly used safe words are "red" (stop), "yellow" (slow down/adjust), and "green" (go ahead), but other safe words may be agreed upon before scenes. These must always be respected.

2. Respect All Participants

Boundaries: Respect personal boundaries, both physical and emotional. Do not touch or engage with someone without explicit permission.

No Interruptions: Do not interrupt ongoing scenes unless there is a clear and present danger. Spectators should watch respectfully without interfering.

Personal Space: Maintain an awareness of personal space, and do not enter another person's scene or private area without invitation.

3. Safety First

Know Your Limits: Be aware of your physical and mental limits, and do not exceed them.

Safe Equipment Use: Only use toys and equipment that are safe and appropriate for the scene. Ensure all devices, such as restraints, are functional and safe.

Aftercare: Make sure aftercare is arranged for participants involved in intense scenes, whether physical, emotional, or mental.

First-Aid Available: A first-aid kit supplies are available in case of accidents or injuries.

4. Confidentiality and Privacy

No Photos/Videos: Photography or videography is not allowed. Do not post about others’ involvement on social media without their permission.

Anonymity: Respect attendees’ desire for discretion.

5. Communication Is Key

Pre-Scene Discussions: Before any scene, clearly communicate desires, limits, boundaries, and safe words. If applicable, negotiate in advance to ensure mutual understanding.

Mid-Scene Communication: Check in with partners throughout the scene, especially if something seems off.

Respect Changes: If someone needs to modify or stop a scene for any reason, respect their decision immediately and without question.

6. Inclusivity and Non-Discrimination

No Discrimination: Everyone should feel welcome regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, body type, or experience level. Discrimination or harassment of any kind is prohibited.

Support Newcomers: Be welcoming and respectful toward newcomers to the scene, while not pressuring them into anything they are uncomfortable with.

7. Respect the Venue

Cleanliness: Respect the venue and equipment by cleaning up after yourself. Sanitize toys, equipment, and surfaces after use.

No Drugs/Alcohol: Avoid using drugs or alcohol before or during play to ensure clear-headed, informed decision-making. Liquor will not be served nor be aboard on the ship.

Damage: If you accidentally damage any equipment or venue property, report it to the organizers.

8. No Means No

Consent: Consent is the foundational principle of all BDSM activities. It involves clear, mutual, and enthusiastic agreement between all parties before engaging in any scene or play. Always ask before progressing.

Respect Declined Invitations: If someone says no to a scene or an invitation, respect their decision without pestering or guilt-tripping them.

9. Dress Code

Attire: Please adhere to the Seattle Fetish Ball standard, but keep in mind that dress should also be safe and comfortable for scenes. No sharp objects or hazardous materials should be worn.

10. Organizers Have Final Say

Authority: Event organizers have the authority to remove anyone who violates the code of conduct. They are responsible for ensuring that everyone abides by the rules and behaves in a respectful manner.

Failure to Comply

Anyone found in violation of these rules or engaging in unsafe or non-consensual behavior will be immediately removed from the event and may face further exclusion from future gatherings.

These rules are intended to create a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for all participants.

FAQ

Q: What kind of play is allowed on the cruise?

A: This is a no SOP (sex on premise) venue. We also ask no: needle play, wetworks, fire play, breath play, (not an exhaustive list). Our partners Switch Kitchen will be on hand to deliver tastings and monitor the play space.

Q: Can I bring my own liquor?

A: No. Intoxicated persons will not be allowed to participate in any scenes.

Q: Is suspension allowed?

A: There are no suspension points on the ship.

Q: Can I take photos?

A: Photos or videos are not allowed.